私の認識の人及 (My Perception Of Men)

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MEN

Category C: Male chauvinist (MCP)
Usually found to be:
-Petty
-Selfish
-Unreasonable
-Prideful
Definition: a person with a prejudiced belief in the superiority of his own kind
(Usually the Jerks)

Category B: Mr Nice Guy
Usually found to be:
-Obliging
-Submissive
-Low Self Esteen
-Boring
Definition: the "losers"
(From the book written by John Alexander they are known as Beta-Males)


This is SINGAPORE that i am living in.
And i'm wondered about the men living in this country.

Many of that i met, had been branded by me with the tag "SORE LOSER" and there are of those which require no branding. They walk around with the tattoo "JERK" on their foreheads.
(These are non-humans at least its what i thought)

Most of the population that i've met are known as "Mr Nice Guys", Category B. They usually get pushed over, bullied and manipulated. The insecurities found in them may lead to "agressiveness" which you may find this similar quality with Category C. Them finding it hard to convey their thoughts may result to many disrespectful actions.

Oftenly, i find this group of people irritating as they would never voice their thoughts. Either this way or they do not know how to make decisions. You feel like they are "Gu Niangs"(women).

When things do not go their way and at the same time their ego starts playing tricks with them, you start to see another cycle of his life. Actions that this "nice Guy" does thereafter may lead to a common line bythwir partners, "i don't understand you anymore."

Insecurities; i find it very hard to surface this flaw i see in many. The common dreadful things that happen are promiscuity and possesiveness. In order to fill up this "hole" in them, they may start to be domineering and in time if they still fail to address their thoughts and anxiety, anguish follows.

Heard of anyone beating his partner up? Their fear of losing further pride box them up, closing every channel of release and such results.

Pettiness; Ever wondered how someone could get angry over the minoriest issue? They get angry and during the midst of temper lost, they lose themselves and become unreasonable.

Many a times, when neither gives into this arguement, cold war starts and evntually things fade into nothingness and before you know it, its over.

The MCPs - Straigtforwardly, these are arseholes. The occurence of dominating nature could be an in born, but usually it transforms overtime from the people of category B. Sometimes it bothers me if it was because of the upbringing? Education? or the culture of the society?

I find it disgusting especially when these group of people becomes full of themselves. They become very selfish and i thought it evolves till this stage just to protect themselves.

See how they upgrade? From B - C, just like cup B to cup C, they contain all the qualities and magnify themselves better as a jerk. Hee..

In my opinion, the percentage of Category A straight men is close to 0%. Of course you would find Category B and C in the homo world, but a large amount of them are usually top-males. Not to discriminate men, but i think there are still nice straight category As' around this society. I've met some and in my list the closest friends.

I always thought that a "good man" should posses qualities i.e the opposite of Bs' and Cs'. At least, the minimum package is to have good self esteem but not overly. The paradox of life, gives me the benefit of doubt that any kind could be the perfect guy so long as they understand the timings of events.

Many a times in life, things go wrong because of bad timing and slow reaction.

No hard feelings jerks. Anyone can be of the better. It is just what you choose.
A good guy friend of mine ever said this, "man are all jerks at different levels" Even if you deny it, you still learnt how to jerk-off at one point of time. ;)

Another common line i always hear, "the good guys are either married, taken or gays. The remainders are those that are..." Haha you know =)
Hopefully the population of the remainders in this society will have another critic someday.

^_^


Current Mood: Peace
Current Music: the buzzing sound from my fan